Shekinah Garner and Sarper Güven from 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way seem like a bad match, but a few traits make them immensely compatible. The new pair debuted in the middle of the 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 5. Despite that, they have become some of the most noteworthy duos on the show. Shekinah and Sarper live completely different lives; she’s a business owner and a single mom with various responsibilities, while Sarper is a “bad boy” who seemingly lives to appeal to women. While Shekinah knows her boyfriend has been a womanizer, she hopes he’ll improve himself for her.

The recent episode showed Shekinah moving to Turkey to be with Sarper. However, the 41-year-old may regret her decision due to all his red flags. Over the weeks, Sarper has shown that he isn’t the best guy for Shekinah to pursue. He has asked her to be a certain weight and isn’t following her demands. The 43-year-old Turkish man didn’t even replace the bed after Shekinah told him to do so. She feels uncomfortable with the idea that Sarper has been with over 2500 women.

While Shekinah and Sarper have their differences, there are a few reasons why they continue their relationship. Recently, Shekinah took to one of Sarper’s posts and revealed her reason for loving him. She wrote (via The Retired Bad Boy), “you’re the most self-aware person I know,” and complimented his personality. Shekinah said she greatly adores Sarper because of his intellect and philosophical mindset. She added, “always seeking to understand why you are the way you are. I love that about you.” Fans may not see Sarper’s positive traits, but Shekinah has seemingly understood him as a person.

Similarly, Sarper has his reasons for loving Shekinah despite having been with several women. In a previous episode of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, he revealed that he adores Shekinah because she’s the perfect mix of sweet and spicy. He said, “outside, she’s like a sex bomb but soft inside. That’s the thing that I love about her.” Sarper also adores how committed and caring Shekinah is with him. During the couple’s second date, Shekinah decided to care for Sarper even though he wasn’t feeling well. She has also flown from the United States to Turkey to be with him.