Michael Ilesanmi could be more addicted to reality TV fame than Angela Deem, using social media hashtags strategically for engagement.
Despite rocky relationship with Angela, seeking therapy, and spousal visa approval, Michael prioritizes boosting social media popularity over personal integrity.
Michael’s strategic use of social media, sharing content with co-stars and celebrities, hints at a desire for another reality TV gig despite past drama.
There’s some evidence that suggests Michael Ilesanmi from 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? may be more addicted to reality TV fame than Angela Deem. Michael fell in love with Angela in 2017 despite their massive 22-year age gap. They decided to pursue a relationship and debuted on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days to televise their journey. Michael and Angela had a smooth start, but personal differences eventually turned things ugly. Michael also messed up by cheating on Angela when he got intimate with another woman and admitted to his wrongdoing.

Michael and Angela’s relationship changed forever after the cheating scandal. Michael failed to make Angela trust him again, leading to more relationship problems. Ultimately, the couple decided to seek professional help. They joined 90 Day: The Last Resort to seek therapy, which helped them reconcile. After waiting for nearly four years, Michael’s spousal visa got approved, and he finally came to the United States in late 2023. He spent a few months with Angela but decided to leave her, citing concerns for his safety. Eventually, Michael found the perfect community in America, which supports him.

Michael seemed like an innocent victim in his relationship with Angela. However, his social media activity suggests he continued to be in a toxic relationship with his wife for money and fame. Over the last seven months, Michael has posted a lot of content on his social media, repeatedly using the hashtag “#90dayfiance” to promote his posts. He has also used the hashtag to gain engagement on unrelated posts, such as his selfies. It seems like Michael wants all his posts to go viral to gain more followers and remain relevant among 90 Day Fiancé fans.

Michael Always Wanted To Be Popular
Michael’s addiction to fame isn’t something new. He has been waiting to become popular on social media since he first appeared on the show.

He even blackmailed Angela in 2022 and asked her to let him use Instagram. Michael claimed he wanted to cash in on his fame and make some extra income. Meanwhile, Angela told him to delete his social media profiles because she didn’t trust him around other women. Ultimately, Michael demanded Angela pay him even more if she wanted him to get off all the platforms. He tried to blackmail her, which didn’t work out for him.

Michael Had His Sights Set On Becoming A Breakout Star Online
Things seemed to be going in the right direction in 2023. Michael reconciled with Angela in 90 Day: The Last Resort and promised to do better. He even got off all the social platforms before getting his spousal visa. Michael let Angela control him for a few more months. He let her believe he had changed and would never betray her by joining social media. Later that year, Michael finally landed in the United States. He didn’t use social media and filmed 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 8 without causing any arguments with Angela.

Unsurprisingly, Michael changed the moment he ran away from Angela. He returned to social media in early 2024, letting fans know he was free.

He joined all major social media platforms, including Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook. Michael also didn’t wait to flaunt his new happy life in America. He started posting daily content to engage fans and get more followers. Within six months, Michael went from 0 to 118k followers on his verified Instagram account. He became one of the few 90 Day Fiancé franchise cast members to quickly reach that milestone.

Michael Reshares 90 Day Fiancé’s Posts Even If It Includes Angela
Michael’s Main Focus Is Social Media Engagement
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Michael’s actions prove he cares more about clicks and likes than his integrity. He heavily relies on content featuring Angela to promote his reality TV gig.

Michael also shares trailers from the show, posting his wife’s face to get views. On the other hand, Angela hasn’t shared many promotional posts featuring Michael over the months. She had only posted a few videos from the show in the spring. It looks like Angela isn’t seeking to boost her popularity or influence through her husband. However, Michael enjoys posting about Angela — the woman who allegedly threatened his safety.

Michael Used Angela’s Short Temper To His Advantage
Michael Used The Victim Card To Be Everyone’s Favorite
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Michael has always been hungry for attention. Like Angela, he used reality TV drama to make his chaotic moments go viral.

Michael knew about his wife’s short temper and continuously ticked her off to create tense situations. From the time Angela smashed a cake in Michael’s face to the moment when she surprised him in Nigeria and attacked his car, everything happened because of avoidable arguments. Michael tested Angela’s patience by repeatedly cheating on her, knowing the angrier she got, the more she’d make him look like a victim.

Michael Has Made Many Co-Stars and Celebrities His Friends
Michael’s Strategy Is To Make Collaborative Content To Get More Clicks
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Michael has been using social media with pinpoint accuracy. He has been posting specific content to showcase his journey in America. He knows fans are interested in seeing him enjoy his life, so he’s purposely sharing content that satisfies their needs. Over the months, Michael has also posted content with co-stars and celebrities. He has shared photos with African rappers and showcased his friendly relationship with cast members such as Kobe Blaise. Michael knows how to get maximum engagement on social media and uses that to his advantage.

Michael May Be Trying To Get Another Reality TV Gig
Could Michael Return To 90 Day: The Single Life?
Michael’s social content suggests that he wants to grow even more popular than before. He hopes to live his American dream and do it the right way. Over the months, he has maintained a friendly relationship with everyone related to the show. He stays optimistic, shares content that spreads positivity, and maintains a good relationship with the network. Michael showcases himself as a good Samaritan by following all the rules and not leaking any spoilers. The 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? star probably wants the network to cast him in another show, such as 90 Day: The Single Life.