Reality star Kim Menzies’ son, Jamal, has become an instant fan-favorite after the 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Tell-All, and the proud mother revealed what she thinks about him dating older women. Kim, 50, became a fan of Usman Umar, aka Sojaboy, and slipped into his DMs to form a friendship with him. The 34-year-old Nigerian singer grew close to Kim over the next year but not close enough to start dating her. Usman kept Kim at bay by declaring her his “potential” girlfriend during their Tanzania trip and perhaps wanted to keep things that way. But Kim’s threats to Usman, who’s barely a few years older than Jamal, finally worked in her favor when she became his “official” girlfriend on 90 Day Fiancé

While Usman had invited Kim to Tanzania to test the waters, she came prepared with a suitcase full of T-shirts with Sojaboy’s face on them, and a MacBook Pro and PlayStation as gifts. Kim also booked the honeymoon suite, hoping that she and Usman would share the room. But Usman claimed his religion stopped him from getting intimate with a woman without being in a relationship with her. Kim didn’t seem to mind and kept demanding Usman for sex. During a scene, Kim asked Usman, “Do you think my son will love the way you treated me right now?” and declared, “My son’s gonna cuss him out, and I don’t want that to happen.”

Because of Kim’s interest in Sojaboy, fans wanted to know how she would feel if her son were to date someone her age. During a recent Q&A session with 90 Day Fiancé viewers on Instagram, Kim finally revealed what she thought about it. Of course, the fan who asked had a hidden agenda behind it. “Cuz we are eyeing him,” the fan wrote in their question. “I love Jamal unconditionally,” began Kim. “And if he chose to date an older woman, I would always support [him],” the former restaurant manager added. She asked the fan, “That’s what moms do right?” with a smiling emoji.

One fan told Kim how they loved the way Jamal had his mom’s back in a very classy way during the Tell-All. “Jamal is very supportive of me and I very thankful,” admitted Kim. She answered a few questions about Usman as well and revealed that he still has the PS5 and that she celebrated her birthday with Usman in Tanzania, which didn’t make it to the show. Kim wrote that she had lots of fun, and Usman treated her like a queen. Kim revealed that she’s never talked with Lisa. However, she does wish her love and happiness always. Apart from Usman, the most amazing people Kim met on the 90 Day Fiancé set are her producer and camera crew.

Kim’s journey with Usman wouldn’t have even begun had it not been for the support she received from Jamal and her late mom, Sally. Kim confessed that she would lay down on the street for two people in her life: her mom and son Jamal. She considers Jamal her biggest accomplishment and the best thing that came out of her 20-year marriage with her ex-husband. Jamal is skeptical of Usman’s intentions just like the rest of the 90 Day Fiancé viewers. Whether or not Jamal decides to date someone older is his choice, but when it comes to Kim’s relationship with Usman, he would certainly guide his mom in the right direction.